Feeling good about yourself isn’t about constant achievement, perfection, or earning other people’s approval. In the PsycheVita® model, low self-worth is not a character flaw — it’s a developmental signal that one of your core psychological capacities needs to grow.
“How To Feel Good About Yourself Every Day” is a short PsycheScription™ guided by psychotherapist, clinical supervisor, executive coach, and award-winning researcher Dr Tony Weston. It’s designed to help you gradually shift from “I am not enough” to a deeper, quieter stance of “My worth is not up for negotiation.”
In this practice, you will:
Begin with simple grounding
One hand on your chest, one on your belly, feeling the rise and fall of your breath.
Moving from performance to presence: nothing to prove, only something to notice.
Use 3–6 breathing (inhale for 3, exhale for 6) to:
Soothe your nervous system.
Create just enough calm for new self-worth messages to land.
Reframe low self-worth as a signal, not a verdict:
Old inner scripts like “I must prove myself” or “I don’t deserve love unless I achieve” are recognised as traces of past experience, not truths about who you are.
Practice a gentle “yes” to what’s here:
“Yes, this is how I’ve been taught to feel.”
“Yes, this is my experience right now.”
That yes creates space to grow beyond it rather than fighting yourself.
Ask a developmental question:
“What might life be asking of me here?”
To rest in your value rather than chase it; to trust that you are worthy of care, love, and respect simply by being here.
Plant new inner statements that can be returned to daily:
“I am not broken.”
“I don’t need to earn my worth.”
“I am worthy of care, love, and respect.”
Within the Lifelong Capacities Map®, this PsycheScription™ primarily builds:
3.4 Healthy Self-Worth – a stable sense of dignity that doesn’t rise and fall with performance or other people’s approval.
As 3.4 strengthens, it naturally cascades into:
Clearer relational boundaries (e.g. Capacity 4 skills) — you’re less likely to over-give, people-please, or tolerate poor treatment.
More emotional steadiness — because your value no longer feels constantly at risk.
A deeper sense of belonging — you can show up as yourself rather than who you think you “should” be.
With full membership, you can:
Pair this track with other PsycheScription™ audios on grief, loneliness, anxiety, self-doubt, and hope, creating an integrated self-worth and emotional capacity pathway.
Access worksheets that help you rate your current level on 3.4 Healthy Self-Worth using the 0–5 PsycheVita® vitality scale and choose concrete daily practices to move up a level.
Explore long-form explainer videos on identity, presence, and personal power that show how healthy self-worth underpins leadership, relationships, and long-term psychological vitality.
This isn’t about hyping yourself up for a moment and then crashing. It’s about building the inner architecture of self-worth you can return to every day — especially when you feel most uncertain.
Skills, not pills.
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